the roads are empty today...of all save those, like me, who travelled to work and will be providing warmth and cheer for others to enjoy until their families come for them and leave us alone in the cottages awaiting their return this evening.
there is a warmth in being able to provide joy to others. though, sometimes, a quiet, (guilty) selfish voice whispers into the darkness, hoping for some for myself some day... it's odd that i've lived here in billings for so many years and have so few friends. most of them have moved away to other parts of the country. somehow, billings still manages to grow. yet, i work entirely too much and have forgotten, i think, how to make connections with people in my own community. or, perhaps, the new influx of out of staters simply stick to themselves more than the locals...and the locals are happy in their own circles already. most of the time i don't think on it much...though the holiday season tends to bring it to the fore.
may you all enjoy your family and friends and holidays!
namaste'
Thank you for sharing yourself, in providing to the needs of others. It is a good thing you do. making connections in this day and age can be tricky. Reaching out to others in need is one sure way though! Much warmth to you on this day and the days that follow.
ReplyDeleteIt is a wonderful thing you do Joe, and I am sure it brings much satisfaction.
ReplyDeleteBeing as busy as you are with work and cloth, it is probably hard to find time to get out and about to make friends.
I hope when you finish work today you can settle comfortably at home, a drink in hand by the warm fire, your lovely dog by your side and feel content...that you have a wonderful Christmas Day!
Sending Joy and Cheer for Christmas and always.
Jacky xox
making connections is not easy. but remember that you have all of us out here in blogland.
ReplyDeletethanks, y'all! i hope your holidays are filled with love and contentment.
ReplyDeleteWarm wishes Joe. Your kindness to others is a rare gift in these selfish times.
ReplyDeleteEven living in a bigger city sometimes it is so hard to find like minded folks. I've always worked on Christmas too so others with children could spend the days together, but you are right. There are times when I feel that I would love that warm friendly Christmas scene...maybe when I retire & I can make it for myself. Meanwhile, I have my dogs & husband to show me love.
ReplyDeletehang in there.
ReplyDeletei always think liberal churches, mini art classes, and anything around a university are great ways to pick up new chatting buddies, but everyone is really set in there ways here and it's hard to make anything long term stick.
i've often thought it'd be awesome to have an eharmony friends only version where you're matched off compatibility and just find people or groups to hang out with.
merry holiday. seriously, hang in there. if it weren't for my immediate family i'd spend loads and loads of time alone.
Hello, I am pretty new to your blog, and just spent the past half hour reading back through it. There is much to take in, but thank you for your willingness to share yourself through your thoughts and insights. I appreciate many of the ideas you explore, take care, michelle
ReplyDeletelove that picture of the truck!
ReplyDeleteYou are a real giver and the joy you bring people is something that I am sure is measured in spirit and will come back to you in wonderful unexpected ways. kindness is never forgotten <3
I am wishing you much joy, love and peace. : )
I found your blog through my pal at Numinosity. I really like your words and your creativity, such a pleasure to read. xox Corrine
ReplyDeletethat's a great idea, serena! now all we need is someone to start a site like that! :-)
ReplyDeletethank you, everyone, for such warm thoughts and wishes!
ReplyDeleteand welcome to all my new readers!
namaste'